All of You

Ep.39 The mental load

When it comes to responsibilities managing a household we want it to be 50/50 all the time, but the reality is it's challenging to measure and the constant keeping score can add to the stress and lead to conflict. In this episode Shiv and Dave share their struggles with this and Dave expounds on his belief that this is all a trap! 
 
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Ep.38 Compassion’s role in healing

The journey of self growth and healing is filled with daunting obstacles, challenges, some highs and a lot of lows. It takes courage and strength to be in the pursuit of the best version of yourself. With growth it is often two steps forward and one step back, but when we are taking that step back it’s hard to not be critical of ourselves. This is where the importance of self compassion comes in. In this episode we discuss how giving ourselves compassion is essential on the journey to healing and how it can have a powerful impact when we extend it to others. 
 
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Ep.37 The wall of resentment

Resentment, it’s the ultimate connection killer. In this week’s episode Shiv and Dave share times they have harbored resentment in their relationship and how easy it is to let little bricks of resentment turn into a massive wall where they can no longer see each other. Tune in as they explain how through curiosity and commitment to seeing each other they have learned how to break the resentment wall down.
 
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Ep. 36 Are we Christians?

Tune in for another episode that Shiv swore she would never do, talk about faith and religion. While Shiv and Dave were both raised in the Christian church, their faith journeys are far from simple and they have both deeply wrestled with what they believe. From religious trauma to deconstruction to how they listen to God, this episode shares a new side of Shiv and Dave. 
 
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Ep.35 Handling red flags in relationships

Get a little philosophical with us this week as we discuss what we believe red flags are. Whether you are newly dating or have been with your partner for 20 years and are just starting to see the red flags in your relationship, this episode dives into ways to talk to your partner as well as keep yourself safe. 

Ep. 34 Sex life

Yep, we went there. In this week’s episode we dive into a topic that’s often taboo to talk about, but is so central to connection: sex and intimacy. Dave shares his journey of unlearning the scripts he was handed growing up about sex and gets candid about how he healed and shifted his mindset in order to create a foundation of trust in their relationship that ultimately led to a better sex life or as Dave would call it meal sex instead of ice cream sex. Whether you’re feeling disconnected from your partner, unsatisfied in your sex life, or simply curious about how healing can elevate your connection, this episode is for you.

Ep. 33 The ego’s role in change

Changing can feel like a death of your ego and is often so uncomfortable that it feels like it’s wrong. In this episode Shiv details the ways she has changed over the last year and how she was able to tell if she was changing into a more authentic version of herself or not. When we grow it is not always accepted by those around us, tune in to hear how to overcome others perceptions of you.

Ep. 32 Battling Depression

This week, Shiv and Dave open up about their personal experiences battling depression and share their perspective on what they believe depression is. Dave shares his holistic point of view on healing from depression and goes into detail on how he healed.

Ep. 31 Working through fears of blending our family and getting married (again)

Getting married a second time can bring up a flood of emotions, fears, and doubts. In this episode, Dave opens up about the personal blocks and anxieties he faced as he prepared to take this step again. Shiv shares her own vulnerable journey, navigating the complexities of marrying someone with children and the inner work it took to build trust and feel ready to say "I do." Together, they explore the challenges of blending their lives and families, offering hope and inspiration for others on a similar path.

Ep. 30 The impact of a father or lack thereof

It goes without question that our parents and caregivers make a lasting impact in shaping who we become. This episode explores the impact of fathers who choose to not be present in their child's life physically or who might be physically present, but emotionally absent. Dave gets personal about the wounds that he has had to heal and the journey to healing them.