All of You
Welcome to the All of You Podcast with Dave and Shiv Martinell! A few years and one too many fights ago, our relationship led us on personal journeys toward self awareness, healing, and personal growth. We started to see that the more we healed, the better we started showing up not just in our relationship, but in the workplace, in our friendships, with our daughters, and most importantly for ourselves. Our hope is that in sharing our own raw and vulnerable truths, others will be inspired, feel seen, and will want to pursue growth and healing in their own lives. We’re driven by the belief that as each person heals, the collective heals and that’s how we make this world a more beautiful and loving place. Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing with a certified coach? Book a consultation call with us: Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Sep 15, 2025
Monday Sep 15, 2025
Where’s the line between a healthy boundary and trying to control someone you love? In this episode, we dive into the difference. Boundaries create safety, clarity, and respect in a relationship — while control often comes from fear, insecurity, or a need to manage the other person. We’ll share real-life examples of what healthy boundaries sound like versus what control looks like in disguise, and how to know when you’re crossing the line. If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I setting a boundary, or am I just trying to get my way?” this episode is for you.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Sep 08, 2025
Monday Sep 08, 2025
What if the confidence you’ve been chasing isn’t about looking put together or pretending you’ve got it all figured out, but about healing the parts of you that were hurt in the first place?
In this episode, we’re breaking down what real self-confidence looks like and why it can’t come from surface-level fixes. We talk about the wounds that shape how we see ourselves and the subtle ways we avoid facing our insecurities.
You’ll hear personal stories of the areas we lack self confidence and how we work on the parts of ourselves that need it. By the end, you’ll see why healing, not hiding, is the only true path to lasting self-confidence.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Sep 01, 2025
Monday Sep 01, 2025
Jealousy is one of those emotions everyone feels but no one really likes to talk about. Is it a natural part of love, or does it always point to deeper insecurity? In this episode, we dive into the complexities of jealousy — where it comes from, how it shows up in relationships, and what it might actually be trying to tell us.
We also share how our own views of jealousy have shifted over time and the ways we’ve learned to navigate it in a healthier, more honest way. If you’ve ever wrestled with jealousy (and let’s be real — who hasn’t?) this episode will give you a fresh perspective and practical tools to bring more trust and safety into your relationship.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Aug 25, 2025
Monday Aug 25, 2025
This week's episode is a little different…Instead of diving deep into one theme, Shiv and Dave are serving up their hot takes—the rants, opinions, and random musings that don’t quite fit into a full topic but are too wild and funny to keep off the mic. From believing that social media isn’t bad to discussing why sometimes eating “unhealthy” is actually the healthier choice, we’re sharing the things we’re currently chewing on.
These takes aren’t set in stone—we believe them today, might change our minds tomorrow, and that’s half the fun. Tune in for laughs, unfiltered conversation, and a peek into how our brains spiral when we let loose.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Aug 18, 2025
Monday Aug 18, 2025
Why do we sometimes get in our own way, even when things are going really well? In this episode, we unpack the sneaky ways self-sabotage shows up in our lives—whether in relationships, career, or even moments of peace and happiness. We explore the beliefs that fuel it (“What if it all gets taken away?” “Do I really deserve this?”), and how old family patterns may have shaped what we think love, success, and safety are supposed to look like.
Together, we share personal stories of times we’ve caught ourselves sabotaging, the emotions that come up when life feels too good, and the practical tools we use to break the cycle. You’ll walk away with insights on how to recognize your own patterns, how to push through self-sabotage, and most importantly—what it looks like to actually let things be good.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Aug 11, 2025
Monday Aug 11, 2025
Attraction isn’t static — it ebbs and flows depending on our energy, our connection, and what’s happening inside of us. In this episode, we talk openly about what happens when “the spark” feels like it’s fading, and how to tell if it’s really gone or just asking for your attention.
We share how to discern whether a lack of attraction is about your own inner world or the dynamic between you and your partner, how insecurity and self-sabotage can make things worse, and why being with a secure partner matters. You’ll hear real stories from our own marriage about times we’ve felt less attracted to each other (and how we handled it), why quick fixes like big date nights aren’t enough, and the small daily habits that actually keep chemistry alive.
If you’ve ever wondered whether attraction can come back and what to do in those moments when it feels like it’s slipping away this conversation will give you the perspective, tools, and hope you need.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Aug 04, 2025
Monday Aug 04, 2025
In this follow-up episode, Dave opens up more about the beliefs he formed around money growing up, and together we unpack how those early messages shape the way we approach money today.
We explore the role of safety, control, and values in how couples relate to money, what habits have actually brought us closer, and why there’s no one right way to manage money in a relationship. Our hope is that this conversation helps you feel less alone and a little more equipped to talk about money with the person you love.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Jul 28, 2025
Monday Jul 28, 2025
In this first episode of our two-part series on money, Shiv shares how her old money beliefs were shaped by fear, scarcity, and survival—and how shifting those beliefs changed everything. We unpack the idea that couples aren’t actually fighting about money, but about the deeper stories and wounds attached to it. We also explore how someone's money behaviors—like overspending, withholding, or controlling—can create attraction issues, trigger power dynamics, and erode safety in a relationship. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or disconnected when it comes to finances with your partner, this one’s for you.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Jul 21, 2025
Monday Jul 21, 2025
In one of our most listened-to episodes, we tackled defensiveness—and you asked for more. In this deeper dive, we explore how to stay open and grounded when your guard wants to go up. We share real stories from our own relationship, unpack why defensiveness shows up most with the people we love, and offer practical tools for staying regulated, curious, and connected—even in the heat of conflict!
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
In this episode, we’re sharing the real, raw story of how we met—and how it nearly all fell apart. From big reactions to small things, to feeling controlled and walking on eggshells, our relationship brought our triggers front and center. We’re talking about what made us give it another shot, how we slowly rebuilt trust, and what the work actually looked like (spoiler: it wasn’t cute or easy). If you’ve ever wondered if it’s possible to come back from a rocky start—this one’s for you.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:
Dave: https://calendly.com/dlmartinell/30min
Shiv: https://calendly.com/siobhanmartinell/30min
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